ABSTRACT

Good manners are the backbone of any civilized society. Good behaviour, sympathy, politeness, kindness and obeying the rules and regulations of society fall under the purview of good manners. It is the philosophy of ‘live and let live’. Man cannot live in solitude and he needs society. To live peacefully and comfortably he must have good manners. Good manners mean due consideration and respect for the feelings of others. A well-mannered person is tolerant and he never minds small bitterness and inconveniences. Good manners cost nothing but they repay much. Their display converts enmity into friendship and jealousy into hugs. They create a congenial atmosphere everywhere. They are learnt through interaction and during the early years of education. They place a man on the high pedestal of maturity. Some feel they are the signs of helplessness and weakness. It is a wrong conception. In fact, a well-mannered person can get things done even in most difficult situations.

INTRODUCTION

Thinking selflessly about others is a quality appreciated by everyone. Good manners are the norms that are set and accepted by the society in which we live. These are the principles that we have to follow religiously if we want to be called a well-behaved human. Talking politely to others is one of the basic principles that can alone create a good impression on others. Being rude is an attempt to hurt others and can impact anyone psychologically. Such behavior does not qualify us to be a good human being. Instead, we get alienated as a result. It is better to seek forgiveness if we have hurt someone because mercy can prevent prolonged grudges between two people. Being rude is an attempt to hurt others and can impact anyone psychologically. Such behavior does not qualify us to be a good human being. Instead, we get alienated as a result. It is better to seek forgiveness if we have hurt someone because mercy can prevent prolonged grudges between two people. Manners are defined differently in various cultures, but being thankful for their favor is a universal rule. A simple thank you can leave a positive impact on the other person and can create new friendships between two individuals. It can develop proper understanding and maintain harmony between them.

WE MUST HAVE GOOD MANNERS

1.) We must learn the habit of sharing things to others.

2.) We should be helpful, polite and humble to others in every possible way.

3.) We must use the words ‘sorry’, ‘please’, ‘thank you’, ‘excuse me’ and ‘time wish’ as and when required.

4.) We must respect the other’s property and always take permission before using.

5.) We must be responsible as well as self-dependent for everything at every place.

6.) We must behave in a good way with humble respect to our teachers, parents, other elders and senior citizens.

7.) We should always maintain cleanliness at home, school, and all other public places.

8.) We should not use any offensive or abusive language to others at home or any other place.

9.) We must give the seat for senior citizens while using public transport.

IMPORTANCE OF GOOD MANNERS

Good manners are very important in our daily life. Importance of these in life is the well-known facts. Good manner creates an effective interaction with friends as well as make a good impression on a public platform. It helps us to be positive throughout the day. Therefore, parents must help their kids to inculcate all possible good manners in their habit.

Good manners always give the opportunity for a new conversation with people and hence the ultimate success in life. If someone talks to you badly, then still don’t talk him in the same way. Always talk him in your own positive way of behaving to give him the chance to change.

CONCLUSION

Good manners are vital to each and everyone in the society. These will definitely help us for getting popularity and success in life because nobody likes mischief and misbehaved person. Good manners are like a tonic to the people living in society. People with polite and pleasant nature are always popular and respectable by a large number of people. Obviously, such people are having magnetic influence over others. Thus, we must practice and follow good manners in our life always.

REFERENCE

1.)https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thefreshreads.com/article-on-good-manners/

2.) https://edumantra.net/learn-english/118-class-9-10-short-essay-and-article-on-good-manners/

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