History of Divorce in India :
Grounds for Divorce:
In most Western nations, there are approximately 16 distinct reasons for which divorces are granted. In India, however, only five main reasons are generally accepted as sufficient grounds for divorce .
Adultery : While no formal definition of adultery exists, it does have “a fairly established meaning in matrimonial law” , namely “the voluntary sexual intercourse of a married man or woman with a person other than the offender’s wife or husband” . While the law considers it valid grounds for divorce for either gender, adulterous women are “judged more harshly” than men . The various religious regulations are not unanimous on this issue. The Hindu law allows divorce to be granted on the grounds of the infidelity of either husband or wife. The Christian law, however, would traditionally not have granted a divorce to a woman solely on the grounds of adultery. She would have had to prove another violation, such as cruelty . A recent Bombay High Court decision “recognised cruelty and desertion as independent grounds for the dissolution of a Christian marriage,” striking down a section of the law that allowed for an unconstitutional distinction between the sexes .
Desertion: The three main components of desertion are the “disruption of cohabitation, absence of just or reasonable cause and their combination throughout three years” before the abandoned spouse may petition for a divorce . There also must be an obvious intent on the part of the offending spouse to remain permanently apart from the other. This statute also applies to cases in which a spouse has been heard from for at least seven years .
Cruelty: As with adultery, “the definition of the type of behavior that constitutes cruelty varies according to the gender of the petitioner” of the divorce. “Despite the fact that cruelty is often equally available to husbands and wives, the way in which the law is interpreted and applied suggests that women and men are evaluated by rather different standards” . This category includes both physical and mental abuse as well as neglect . A court decision made in early May 1997 made cruelty sufficient grounds for a Christian woman to obtain a divorce. Previously, the law required both adultery and cruelty to be proven. The national Indian Christian community seems to have embraced this judgment .
Impotency : This refers to the physical inability of the couple to consummate the marriage or the refusal by one spouse to do so . Some cases have established that sterility can be construed to mean non-consummation if the other partner is not aware of the condition before the marriage
Chronic Disease : Both mental and physical illnesses are included in this category, as well as sexually transmitted diseases . Not all religions recognize identical diseases as grounds for divorce. Christians and Parsis do not allow divorce for a sexually transmitted disease or leprosy while the other communities do .
Consequences of Divorce
Economic : There is great disparity between the economic ramifications of divorce between men and women. Men remain relatively unaffected while women, especially those with children, have difficulty “providing food, clothing and shelter for themselves and their children.” The government in urban areas usually provides some form of public assistance to single mothers, but this service is not fully taken advantage of because most do not know of its existence . Often a woman is not able to rely on her family for support because many parents “feel they have discharged their obligations to a daughter by arranging her marriage and providing a dowry.” Dowries are not returned after a divorce. Also, due to the social stigma of divorce, women find it difficult to remarry and usually attempt to establish an independent household .Social : While the law in India stipulates that one has the right to divorce, it is still a highly stigmatizing action. Women are looked upon more harshly than men in this regard. There continues to be segments of Indian society that feel divorce is never an option, regardless of how abusive or adulterous the husband may be. A divorced woman often will return to her family, but may not be wholeheartedly welcomed. She puts, especially if she has children, an economic burden on her family and is often given lowly household tasks to perform. There is also the risk that a divorced woman’s presence would ward off possible marriages for other daughters within the household. Unavoidably, the overall status of the family and household are lowered by having a divorcee living amongst them. A woman’s class and caste are a major factor in her acceptance back into society. Women from higher classes tend to have an easier time than middle or lower class women in returning to the social order after a divorce. An exception to this model is the extreme bottom of the society who have experienced little rebuff from peers after a divorce. This results from their already atypical status in society .
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