Ever Since the existence of mankind, the difference between men and women have been there. Men and Women are like Chalk and Cheese. We may love each other, hate other but we cannot ignore each other. We come across men in different phases of our lives in different relationships but one man with whom we spend our life is our life partner.
Even though the dispute between husbands and wives is very common, there are certain sets of psychological aspects on how and why we are different. Here are a few of the incidents, which may look daily banter and may sometimes lead to a big fight.
Perspective to a health issue – a woman gets a simple headache
Women expects – A man to pamper her and lovingly apply a balm on her forehead, that will take away half her pain.
Men Expect – She is not a kid, she can eat the medicine herself and can take care of her body.
End Result – One of them is irritated and this anger is stored in mind and vented out in future fight. However, if the husband is unwell and the wife shows the same attitude, then she is for sure held as an incapable wife by the society.
Sex
Women – For women sex is an emotion. A simple touch or gesture can make her day.
Men – Most of the times it is lust. The involvement of emotion is very less compared to women.
End Result – If a woman restrains a man from Sex, he is free to look for the same outside, but if the man restrains the woman from sex, then something must be wrong with her.
Emotions
Women – Women believe in expressing their emotions. They express themselves and are free from the emotional burden. They are called blabbermouth because they do not keep anything in their minds.
Men – A lot of men do suffer from health issues and anger issues because they do not express themselves. They feel that expressing emotions is a sign of weakness. In a way our society itself is responsible for the same. We only taught our boys since young age, that crying is girlish. That is the reason, why men do not express much.
End Result: A lot of couples cannot handle each other’s emotional outburst. Resulting into a lot of health issues for both men and women.
Communication Skills
Women:- Just like our emotions, we never leave a single opportunity to communicate with the world.
Men:- They do not communicate until and unless it is necessary. We have very few men who are open to communication and talk to people. Most of the Indian men are reticent.
End Result:
We Indian women are called Motor Mouth and our Men are called Gentlemen.
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