“ I didn’t plan on taking this road but the journey gave me so much growth.” – Jennae Cecelia
To the people out there reading this ,it has always been a dream to many out there to travel to great places with friends together or a solo trip . And yeah most of them, it has not yet succeeded . Some live in the hope that one day it will come true. Some believe it will never happen and, as far as those situations of their current life it can never happen , they loose hope , they tend to feel depressed that life is hard for them . As Mahatma Gandhi said,” Your beliefs become your thoughts , your thoughts become your words , your words become your actions , your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny .”
I always use to dream a lot , in fact I like to be in my own imaginary world . Maybe because of the age ,being to the youth has so much mental changes which actually needs a lot of guidance and support. This age of twenties is the age where you end up in wrong paths , age for curiosities, urge to experience new things and go for adventures . They would only look for the present situation ,they just want to explore and cannot even think for their future and take wise decisions. Because of that most of the people end up destroying their career or end up nowhere .
I am a person who actually forecast things , my nature is that I would literally check the pro and cons and see if it would make me regret in future or not. If its something that I would regret then definitely I would not choose to do it even if that hurts me for the present. Maybe because of that the current youth mindset and behaviour are hard for me to digest . Not stating that every individual is acting thus like nor the whole is negative but just that such act definitely cause harm for me .
I had never been on train specially on nights to be spend on train with friends . And I had always dreamt of that which get to happened recently . From Kerala traveled to Hyderabad on train for internship . And the journey was fascinating and interesting . Even though we friends who had been together for four years together still while traveling could realize so many things that had never noticed in them before. While traveling we could actually get to understand their character ,its a fact .
Every individual is different from one another. Their thoughts , dreams, what they aspire to become , the things they want to experience , the ideologies and so much more. When we share each others thoughts we get to understand how far one is different from the other and how far we are similar with each other. The vibes you share could not match at times and sometimes it help us find our comforts . It is not necessary that you must match to their views nor if yours is accepted or not . It’s okay if you are far different from the other and if you are being yourself by not able to accept others opinion . Life styles, the way they are brought up all matters in the character in which they hold and no individual is perfect . Everyone are learning from their experiences and let them . Same way if you don’t want certain things to happen in your life then let that be that way you choose. Make wise decisions and sometimes it might not go right and it is definitely okay , learn from those experiences and repent for the wrongs that you have committed . The wrongs would definitely defines for each of you . One person’s wrong might be correct to the other. It depends with one’s conscience .
We tend to believe that acknowledging our acts by the other would only make it valuable which is actually not . Your efforts , your struggles doesn’t only be valued only if others acknowledge it. You know the pain you have carried ,so value yourself no matter what others think about you. Sometimes we need to travel , and travel literally doesn’t mean to places but to different people. When we share our experiences about life we learn new things , we learn things that we could actually avoid in our lives so that there is no regret about that happening. Certain that we would be able to experience knowing that such wonders are also there for us to explore.
Travel to the everywhere and experience things that you have never been before. Explore the world and get the vision to see the unseen and have the wisdom to realize the essence of life and our existence.
“Life is a journey to be experience , not a problem to be solved.” – Winnie the pooh
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